Want a friend to marry you?
Many couples dream of having a close friend or family member lead their wedding ceremony.
It’s heartfelt, personal, and adds an extra layer of meaning.
But here’s the catch: unless your friend is an authorised celebrant, they can’t legally marry you in Australia.
That’s where I come in.
I’ll guide your chosen friend (or loved one) in creating a beautiful, personalised ceremony.
They’ll stand up with you on the day, speak the words you’ve written, and be the face of your celebration.
Meanwhile, I’ll take care of all the legal requirements — ensuring your marriage is recognised under Australian law.
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How It Works
You’ll get the best of both worlds:
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A ceremony that feels truly yours, written and delivered by someone close to you.
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Peace of mind knowing the paperwork is done correctly.
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A legal marriage, without the stress of learning the rules or the forms.
And the truth is, most guests won’t even notice whether the legal words are spoken during the ceremony or done quietly beforehand — they’ll simply see you standing together, saying “I do.”
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Why Couples Love This Option
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It’s personal, meaningful, and uniquely yours.
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Your friend or loved one gets to “marry you” in every way that matters.
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I ensure your marriage is 100% legal and stress-free.
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Your guests will simply remember a beautiful ceremony — not the paperwork behind it.
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Both Options Include:
Initial consultation + guidance
Completion and lodgement of all legal documents
Official registration of your marriage with Births, Deaths & Marriages
A keepsake copy of your ceremony script (if desired)
Ongoing support and advice in the lead-up
Legals Before the Ceremony - from $400
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We meet in advance to complete the legal paperwork.
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You’re officially married before the wedding day.
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On the day, your friend/family member leads the ceremony freely, with no legal requirements.
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Guests won’t notice a difference — they’ll just see a heartfelt wedding.
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Perfect if you want zero paperwork stress on the day and maximum freedom in your ceremony.
Legals on the Day - from $600
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I attend your wedding in a low-key role.
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Your chosen celebrant (friend/family) delivers the ceremony.
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I step in only for the legal components (the minimum words required + signing of paperwork).
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Discreet, seamless, and still very much your ceremony.
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Great if you’d like to keep all the formalities in one moment while still having a loved one lead.